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NH Marriage Haters Will Have to Find a New "Expert"

by: Dean Barker

Wed May 05, 2010 at 06:34:04 AM EDT


Rep. Will Smith in the UL a year ago, on why gays and lesbians can't be good parents, or somesuch bigotry:
House Bill 436 would redefine "marriage" so as to include people of the same sex. Two years ago, the Legislature introduced the concept of civil unions so as to give same-sex couples most of the financial and legal rights afforded to married couples under a concept of fairness. To extend the legal status of marriage to same-sex couples would indicate that the state believes that same-sex couples are equally as effective in raising children as heterosexual couples.

This is contradicted by numerous studies, including "Review of Research on Homosexual Parenting, Adoption and Foster Parenting," by George A. Rekers, professor at the University of South Carolina School of Medicine. This study concludes that, on average, raising children in same-sex homes "uniquely endangers foster children by exposing them to a substantial level of harmful stresses that are over and above usual stress levels in heterosexual foster homes."

I wonder what that child care expert prof is up to these days?

A pair of writers at the Miami New Times are having trouble repressing their glee that they managed to snap (with their "hot-pink digital camera") George Alan Rekers, a right-wing Christian leader and anti-gay lobbyist, getting off a plane at Miami International Airport with a sizzling-hot gay escort. The prostitute, nicknamed "Lucien" by the paper, was available for hire on the gay-escort site Rentboy.com - home of such other celebrity boyfriends/escorts as Jason Preston, former lover of designer Marc Jacobs. Rekers wouldn't deny he found Lucien on that site, but he did say he'd only hired him to help while he was "recovering from surgery" - that's why he took him on an all-expenses paid ten-day trip through Europe. After all, Rekers did co-found the group Focus on the Family, which has been the bane of gay-rights groups since its creation in 1983, and he also is an officer of the National Association for Research & Therapy of Homosexuality, a gay-cure group. Someone like that would NEVER actually hire a gay hooker, right?
Normally when closeted hypocrites get exposed, I leave it alone because I find it kind of sad.  But this excuse for an academic was being used by the anti-marriage crowd here to tell same-sex couples that they are inherently bad parents.  Shame on him.
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Hateful Hypocrisy (4.00 / 2)
When I first read up on Mr. Rekers' Excellent Adventure, I chuckled out loud at my computer:  A virtual-reality "lol" for about three seconds.  

Until I realized the harm that he and so many other "anti-gay" "cure-'ems" do every day with their hateful hypocrisy.  

People like him are the reason I still have a couple of scars from being beat up.  I don't think God will be so amused on their Judgement Day.    


It's sad (4.00 / 2)
that people like Rekers have such a hatred for themselves, and who they are.  And it's sad that whatever societal dictates, peer pressure and homophobia may have contributed to that self-hatred.  But that is no excuse for the saddest thing in all of this: that they allow their self-hatred (or whatever better term I can't think of at the moment) to manifest itself as hatred and oppression of others.  

Someone's sexual orientation is a private matter unless they choose that it is not, and in a way it's unfair for someone who is heterosexual to criticize them, but at some point people like Rekers have a choice to make.  And obviously that choice is not whether or not they are gay, but whether or not they will be honest about who they are, at least to themselves.  If they can't do that, then they at least owe others the respect and decency to be themselves.


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Kevin Smith sure knows how to pick them (4.00 / 2)
Great work Kevin - how many other hypocrites will be exposed?

I am absolutely convinced... (4.00 / 5)
...the those who go to the greatest lengths to oppose any public acknowledgement or acceptance of homosexuality are actually engaging in an obsessive, daily effort to repress their own orientation.

You fight yourself the hardest.

Been there, done that, bought the T-shirt...and finally ripped it off on the dance floor :-)


And I am becoming increasingly convinced that (4.00 / 1)
people who do not know themselves find it almost impossible to respect the privacy of others.  Coercive moral standards serve as a substitute for self-restraint.  In other words, people lacking in self-restraint try to restrain others as they, themselves, need to be restrained.

"Do unto others as you would have others do unto you."

I don't think it's a matter of hypocrisy.  I think it's a matter of some people not being able to help themselves.  Such people also seem particularly prone to addictions of various kinds, also evidence of a lack of self-control/direction.


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These stories lighten up a day (4.00 / 1)
In a creepy way, of course, but to see how totally full of it these Family Values (tm) types are is always good for a larf.  

the poor lad (4.00 / 2)
will now forever be known as LaCombOver Lucien.  

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