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Our Friends In North Carolina Face Constitutional Discrimination As Anti-Gay Amendment Passes

by: Rep. Jim Splaine

Tue May 08, 2012 at 21:50:03 PM EDT


It happened in North Carolina: “Marriage between one man and one woman is the only domestic legal union that shall be valid or recognized in this State.” That amendment the voters approved also bars same-sex couples from having even civil unions or domestic partnership recognition.
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There are now 30 states constitutionally prohibiting gay marriage. Another 9 have civil unions of one form or another. New Hampshire and 5 others (Connecticut, Iowa, Massachusetts, New York, Vermont) and Washington, D.C. allow gay marriage and 2 others (Washingtion State and Maryland) have similar laws about to go into effect.
There's not much to say about the passage in North Carolina of a constitutional amendment banning marriage equality.
Unfortunately, ignorance sells.
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The North Carolina vote emphasizes the need for all of us to help our Maine friends in their effort to pass a referendum this November allowing for gay marriage. The question being asked of the voters is, "Do you favor a law allowing marriage licenses for same-sex couples that protects religious freedom by ensuring no religion or clergy be required to perform such a marriage in violation of their religious beliefs?"

Through the years in our own state's battle for equality, I've heard some disgusting things said to and at me as well as others. But unfortunately, the politics, loathing and avarice the next few months in Maine promises to be even worse.

Rep. Jim Splaine :: Our Friends In North Carolina Face Constitutional Discrimination As Anti-Gay Amendment Passes

I often wonder why people are so afraid of other people. One group in Maine calls marriage equality a "special right" that is "evil" and is an "attack by demonic forces." My goodness. Have they no conscience? They're just bullies. Same thing happened during the past several weeks in North Carolina. The ignorant win that way.

The so-called Christian Civic League of Maine and the National Organization for Marriage have combined forces in an effort to defeat the referendum. Interesting that Jesus never said anything against gays and lesbians, but those who fight against equality don't care. Thing is, there is money — through contributions from the fearful — for those groups fighting equality. Sad, but fear sells.

The question for Maine voters this fall will be whether to join the rest of New England, which for centuries has welcomed people of all nationalities and religions, in adopting equality of marriage for all its citizens. Will Maine stand for decency and the core American ideal: — "with liberty and justice for all?"

I have lived most of my life, and hopefully I have a few more years to see that equality is something that cannot forever be denied. What Maine voters can do this November is what New Hampshire citizens have already decided: to leave for those who will replace us a society based on acceptance of one another so that we can celebrate what unites us as humans, rather than that which divides us.

But our friends in Maine need our help. For more information, visit www.mainersunited.org and www.aclumaine.org.

By the way, as of today, there are 1,936 same-gendered marriages in New Hampshire. Every week since House Bill 436 became effective on January 1, 2010, there have been more marriages. Interestingly, that figure represents just about 10% of our state's total marriages these past three years.  That's something all of us who call this place "home" should celebrate.

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Despite being very depressed tonight, (0.00 / 0)
your eloquent words never fail to uplift me.

Marriage equality is not the issue. The issue is the human right to (0.00 / 0)
associate freely, without fear of penalty or recrimination for engaging in the essentially characteristic acts of a social species. Since every person is unique, every association is unique. The question is whether they are to be treated equally, as the Constitution requires, or some can be legally discriminated against. In other words, it's about the behavior of agents of the state; not the existence of the associations. Whenever we focus on the victim/recipient/non-recipient of an act, the actor or agent is let off the hook.
There was a time when almost no marriages were certified.  We could go back to that; just rely on our relationships to each other being commonly recognized.
Why are some people afraid of people? Because humans are known to prey on and abuse and even kill their own kind. Some, if they can get away with it, enjoy torturing their own kind, mentally and/or physically for the sheer heck of it. We organize ourselves to prevent that.  So, when such behavior is officially approved (as was slavery), it is a sign of a corrupt society.  But, again, that is nothing new. Deprivation of rights under cover of law has been with us from the start. All juveniles are still deprived. All foreign born and not "naturalized" are still liable to being deprived, even though the Constitution promises justice to all persons. It's the history of deprivation of rights under cover of law which some people want to continue and expand to include other categories of people, instead of letting them shrink.
Deprivation of rights under cover of law would seem to be the American original sin and very hard to give up because admitting as much is embarrassing. We would also have to admit that the "rule of law" is a sham, designed to obscure personal culpability for treating some humans as if they were less than human and exploiting them like a beast of burden.
The issue isn't marriage.  The issue is respect for humanity.
Intercourse and reproduction are not characteristic social behaviors. Frogs do it and toads do it and so do dragon flies, all without having any social relationships at all.

Breaking news. (4.00 / 2)
President Obama has come forward and now supports marriage equality.

Courage: John Lynch, Joe Biden, Barack Obama! (0.00 / 0)
Great political courage, and a wonderful statement of support for the American ideal of freedom.   New Hampshire Governor John Lynch did it three years ago, Vice President Joe Biden did it three days ago, and now President Barack Obama.  "...with liberty and justice for all!"  

[I'm a former has-been House member and State Senator, but I keep "Rep." on my ID name for easy reference of previous posts.]

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